The only one who is talking about "kudos" is you (Diablo 3 Gold). It is interesting that in discussions of this kind, the adopters so often resort to this kudos thing. A natural parent actually seldom if ever thinks about kudos for doing what they signed up to do when they had children.
By nature, I AM my son's parent, but I wasn't allowed to parent him. I just wanted to know him, be a part of his life. I had not intention of attempting to "parent" him....that right was stolen from me.
I DID "do the work" with the 5 children that I raised, 3 I birthed and 2 who were part of the package when I fell in love with my husband. As I have said, they are all successful adults now and my husband will be the first to tell you that it is largely due to me because he was gone most of the time. And, their mother was unable, and the reasons why are no one's business. Suffice it to say that the courts felt he was the one with whom they needed to live. I did't try to replace their mother, I didn't demand they call me Mom (Diablo 3 Gold), or that they address me as their mother. They had a mother. they also had a stepmother....me.
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